Fran,

I could totally see H thinking and writing the same letter about me. "We never should have gotten married, I had my doubts, etc..."

It was amazing to see how quickly your thoughts and feelings could change. Thank you so much for sharing.

It seems that H was meeting your needs and that is what changed your feelings. That was very encouraging to read. Great job. Hope H will take meds for depression/anxiety. My H was taking zoloft for a little while. I thought it really helped but he just thought it masked the problem and he stopped taking them. nik