Right now as screwed up as it might seem to YOU, you're going to have to empathize with your W's POV. Are you not getting your needs met? Sure. But it's a helluva lot better than other people's sitchs.
They are called "baby steps" for a reason. There's a time for everything and right now your W isn't at the right place to see to your needs. You do enough reading around here and other place you'll see that.
Is it fair? No. Is it the reality? Yes. You're hurting yourself with your own expectations on how fast things should be moving. Well again, look around here. In my sitch, I've been at it for 2 years. Everyone is different and it's a blessing that your W is slowly coming to a self-realization of what's going on.
Forget about the comment. I've been called worse. Bottom line is that everyone who comes here is frustrated/afraid/angry, etc. These are things we feel over something we can't control. In my sitch, I was lucky enough to have Coach, 25yrsmlc and Sandi put me in my place. It wasn't until I really started listening to the message they were saying and not just the words that I was able to apply things to my W and made things so much better.
M-43 W-40 2D - 9 and 5
Emotion, yet peace. Ignorance, yet knowledge. Passion, yet serenity. Chaos, yet harmony. Death, yet a new life.
