MJ, Onestep, yes, you guys should join FOBDs as BITS! I like that a lot. I don't know much about your sitch Onestep but would be more than happy to catch up if you post your own thread.

FOBD - Sorry to hear about your setback, but it seems minor compared to the daily setbacks that I have been having since last Friday evening. I think that I have broken down crying 4 or 5 different days this past week (still better than Nov and most of Dec when it was every day). I have been feeling extremely lonely in my big house all by myself. Also feeling as if nothing I do, work etc, has any meaning without W and SS in my life. I was doing better for about 10 days, but have been struggling lately.

Meant to ask you FOBD, who's your team in the NFL playoffs? Did you college team with the bowl game? Was it BCS? Big sports fan here. My team, the Broncos just hired John Fox today. I'm pretty happy with that.

Denver

M 43
X 38
T 13
W moves out of home 11/2010
Roller coaster from hell 2/2011-5/2012
I request divorce 5/2012
W moves home 6/2012
Good time 7/2012 - 1/2015
I leave 3/2016
process of divorce