Harrier,

You're not a DB failure.

DB isn't about being emotionless, its more at this point where you are at about controlling them.

Not doing things that affect you badly. Limiting your expectations.

I believe Bond was asking you to empathize with her, pretty sure he wasn't trying to attack or provoke you.

This is only a game if these changes in you are short term.



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Life is usually all about how you handle Plan B. - Jack3Beans

Listen without defending; Speak without offending - FaithinAK

TRUST THE PROCESS - Cadet