Frustrated, Back Again, the Saga continues

[Queen_of_Swords]

Please PM me. I have some information that may be useful to you.
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Depression is anger turned inward. This is not about you, not in the least. Medication can help bring your wife out of the downnward spiral, but ultimately she is going to have to deal with what is the source of the anger.
If she chooses to do that, expect a long haul, you will have to go on this journey with her, as one partner cannot change without the other changing too.