Bolt, do me a favor and take a look at my threads and let me know what you think. 'Deja vu but new to the online forum'
The thing that I get stuck about is that we went through this 2x before and we were back together by now. Obviously, we never resolved our issues, but since I just moved out and I am placing most of my energies looking for a job, I am just going with the flow with whatever right now, so if there are any signs, which I doubt there have been, my W is a mirror image of habitacker's, I am not noticing them. I am just spending all of my time not looking for a job, reading through other people's posts here.
I don't know if it is a positive sign, but my W did suggest I take my girls skiing on Monday since they are off school and signed them up for ski school and arranged all that for me to do.
I'll stop talking about my sitch now since this is SIC's thread. Thanks for letting me borrow it for a few, buddy. I'll get back to my own thread.
Still trying to get a grasp on this detaching concept.
M42 W38 D5D7 M8 Living as 'roomates' since 9-12-10 Moved out 1-7-11 FIL threatened to kill me 1-20-11