Missher, I had mixed emotions about your moving on. Happy you found peace with a decision, but dissappointed that someone in a seemingly similar sitch to mine was moving on.
I'm probably the least credible person to respond here because my W still can successfully sink the hook in me every few months, but you sound a lot like me. Ready to move because I'm satisfied that it's over, I've exhausted the range of emotions, then the anger sneeks back. Not with the power it did, but latently - ebbing slowly away.
If you are like me the temptation is too great during a nice family dinner to give in to the warmth (or feeling of warmth) that I used to have. A perhaps lingering kiss is followed by her disappearance down the hole and I start all over again.
I'm horrible at picking up the subtle signs women give, but IMO you need a neon flashing billboard before returning. Best of luck.
M / W: 43 D8 S6 M 10 years / T 13 years W admitted EA/PA: 10.6.09 Separated in same house 10.6.09 W moved out 2.27.10
