Detachment issues

[irishblessings]

I am so sorry Antonia. I know how difficult this must be for you.

You know, as I read your H's note I can't help but feel this is another example of an MLCr cutting their losses and running. Of course he feels better mentally - he does not have to face the TRUTH of the devastation of his actions. I truly believe that the only way to right the wrongs is to make amends to the person they betrayed/left/etc. The true strength comes in making the choice to right the wrongs - making the choice to work on the marriage with the same energy they use to cheat.

You deserve better Antonia - and I believe that you will have the happiness you deserve!