Lighthouse lit till WAW comes out of fog.

[Denver_2010]

Habit - You have mentioned multiple times that every day is the same bw you and W right now. Not much in the way of a real M in terms of the relationship bw you two. And that you are willing to continue this until W comes out of fog and is ready to work on M. Do I have this right?

The concern that keep coming up for me when I read that description is this: does your W know where you stand as far was what you want? Maybe I missed something in reading your thread or have forgotten. I just want to make sure that you have been clear with W at least once that you love her and want to work on M.

My concern is based on the last 10 months bw my W and I. For much, not all, but much of that time we lived as you described... distant from each other, no talk about M, day after day after day... W came to believe that I didn't love her or want any part of our M. Bad thing to have happen to my M.