Oh and my W isn't the type to talk about her feelings. In fact she stuffs them so far down that she says she doesn't remember alot of the things she said and did in the beginning to me.
I heard it all: I was a bad father, unattractive, only got married because it was the right thing to do, I was NEVER happy, etc. Then there came a point where I said - you know what, none of that is true and I started to call her out on her BS. That's when things started to turn around. Slowly, but the shift was still there.
Oh yeah and I also had the OM come to my working place to get me fired for supposedly harassing him. Wasn't me, but by then I was so at peace with myself I called his bluff. He went off with his tail between his legs.
M-43 W-40 2D - 9 and 5
Emotion, yet peace. Ignorance, yet knowledge. Passion, yet serenity. Chaos, yet harmony. Death, yet a new life.