I got a coaching session and it was helpful. On the coaches advice I wrote and mailed a letter to my W letting her know how I should have treated her, how I screwed up, and just apologized. I didn't ask for reconciliation and the coach said this might show her that I know I should have cheished her and how OM isn't. Been about a week since I've mailed it and nothings changed. I am on the road and no communication at all. I am looking for a job that will allow me to live in my house but other than that does anybody have any suggestions? I sent a text 2 days ago asking how the kids (our pets) are and to please give them a hug for me; no response so far.