Well as some of you know I filed for Divorce on Nov 17th and D day is February 11th. I do not want to continue in this marriage anymore, however I am open to trying to reconcile if my STBXW wants to try but really I do not care one way or the other at all.
UP HERE ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^ First you say you don't, then you say you do, then you say you don't.
That's what jumped out at me. You asked for my opinion.
I see a Missher who is not done. I also see a Missher that
is enjoying life with a new person. You clearly do not know
what you want and I don't have any wood product suitable for
you at the moment.
That said, I smell your W is trying to make this facade of
co-parenting, why can't we just get along and be friends, BS
that I have been getting from my W. My W clearly is deep in
the fog. I think you need to be careful here. I, myself, would
decline the invite and say I have plans already that evening.
If she is turning the corner there will be more attempts in
the future. If there are not more attempts, then you know how
hard she is willing to work to put this HUGE F'd up mess back
together.
As far as this new woman, if you let her in on your thoughts,
what woman is going to understand that dynamic.
I put myself in her shoes and think in my mind I can't trust
this guy for ch!t right now.
I am sorry Missher, I love ya man but you wanted my .02 cents.
I really think your W has a looong way to go. My opinion again.
I still have not heard any signs of her going through any
withdrawl depression yet. Last I read on your post she was good
with the divorce saying "That is what I want" when you asked her.
In my opinion again, you really need a year before dating.
Too late for that.
You gonna just dump this new person?
I guess friendship first with this new person 'cause those
