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[habitacker]

MrBond, I remember you saying that it took over a year I think, before your wife started R talk, or anything positive.

What was life like in that period? For both of you?

The reason I ask is because of the way we are living now. Same day over and over, almost like pretending nothing is wrong. I am fine with this if this is what she needs, time and space.

I think I am doing ok DBing. No pursuing, no talk, 180, somewhat detaching.

I guess what I am asking is, do we just keep going as it is? Just be who I want to be (180) and let things play out and see what time does?

What went on with your sitch in the first year? Anything like this?