So i told w today that i was tired of the ups and downs associated with having her in my life. She knows why i wont let the OM near my children and also what is required for me to stop enforcing that decision. I told her i would not fight with her about it or anything else anymore. I was finished with the drama. My attention, my health, my energy and my love is needed by my children.
I told her i was sorry she made these bad decisions in her life and that if she is trying to improve her life then good for her. I just cant keep supporting her when she treats me like sh*T.
I also told her that until she shows me respect and stops treating me like sh@t, i will not talk to her about anything other than the kids.
I have told her that she can have her visits at my house for a short while if that is her only option, as i want her to see the children.
