Maybe a (edited) stranger yeah. I'd be concerned and yeah I've been on the receiving end of a premature ILY. Bu honestly this isn't a stranger. This is my G-D wife and someone I've known for 18 years.

It is absurd to treat this as a high school romance with the accompanying games. Lets be adults here. I've with held tbe ILY for 10 weeks for the most part.
And dangit last week my wife said that sometimes she just wanted to hear me say I Love You. I did not consider it needy or pathetic AT ALL. Maybe my timing wasn't great

Last edited by Virginia; 01/14/11 01:12 PM. Reason: inappropriate language

Patience is bitter, but its fruit is sweet.
--Jean Jacques Rousseau.