I read somewhere on this site about anger from W is better than detached.
My W has shown absolutely no anger at all, and almost complete detachment. We eat dinner as a family each night, and that is where it ends. Nothing else is said unless it has something to do with kids that has to be talked about.
She will talk small talk if I try, but the response is only her trying to be nice. I can tell there is no interest and she ends it as quickly as possible. 1 word or smallest replies possible.
I don't try making conversation very often, I know I am not supposed to, but when I do it is trying to feel out the sitch.
H-40 W-38 Together-20 Married-12 boy-7 girl-3 bomb-9/17/10 No papers live together No affair