i told her about the walk away wife syndrome and apologized for what i have put her through for years. she said she hadn't filed yet but was fixing to. i apologized for not taking action sooner and allowing our marriage to come to this and no matter what she did my changes were going to stick and that i loved her and always would no matter what she did. also said i respect her decision being i have had plenty of chance to change and didn't. yes i have a lawyer.
