oh, u must have had the same snow storm we had in ny...dont miss having to have my driveway plowed....where i live it is all done for me. fabulous benefit of the divorce lol....
one of the things that helped me to move on is that the circle of people i travel in right now have no associaton to h...h and i married young...being 32 and divorced is rare. so the people im in with an older crowd now and none of them know him. the places i go, he doesnt go. so, i guess, if he were in this circle, it would have been harder..
i see the women who have to deal with their exes, being know as "so and so's exwife"...much harder to deal with...
we will both be ok, i promise! good idea to let your son finished high school where u live...my son was much much younger and easier to move....i only moved 10 minutes from where we lived but its a great change for me.
as for my h, he emails me all day long. he regrets what he did but cant change it now. i think by still talking to me and wanting my attention minimizes the effects for him. i play along because its better to stay on good terms, but at the same time, im moving on with my life and looking for someone new, and looking to finalize the divorce at some point, so long as everything is fair and he pays fairly for the damage he did.
me: 31 H:29 Son:5 m:8 years in november t:10 years first bomb: 10/06 moved home: 3/08 out again 5/08 ow bomb: 4/08, since summer 06 d filed:6/08, on hold 6/08 moved home:3/09 out again 5/09
