"I get the feeling that she doesn't allow me to have bad days, but I'm supposed to excuse certain actions from her as a "bad day." Yet, when I have a bad day she treats it as a huge incident."
Mind reading. It depends on how you approach her by saying you are having a bad day. Do you just blow up or do you tell her calmly that you need support? My C showed me how to do that and now when I feel like I'm going to go off on something, I tell her or I do the "I feel...when you..." It works.
They'll get defensive or raise their shields only when they feel they are being attacked.
M-43 W-40 2D - 9 and 5
Emotion, yet peace. Ignorance, yet knowledge. Passion, yet serenity. Chaos, yet harmony. Death, yet a new life.
