IMO you want to break that emotional connection as soon as possible. For a woman an EA is stronger than a PA. I did it and while it didn't get her running back home, it did make things easier for me not having to think about another man around.

I think I read somewhere that in some cases when a person is in an affair, they put up blinders so that all they see is that one person and not their spouse. The more she pulls away, the more needy you're going to become. Again, maybe you need to make yourself scarce as if you had a life that she might get curious about.

But that's up to you.

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Emotion, yet peace.
Ignorance, yet knowledge.
Passion, yet serenity.
Chaos, yet harmony.
Death, yet a new life.

RECONCILED AND WISER