I got 250 cards online for $5 from vistaprint. I love them and they keep me positive and believing in myself.

I filed because I saw lies, deception, the hiding of money, and I didn't want someone else in control of my life, my future, my destiny....

After 19 months, I LOVE myself, am happy, very close to being in the best shape of my life and I have friends whom I adore and they adore me. Can life get any better? My self-worth and validation come from ME; not from any man. I have to be the person I would want to date; I think I'm about there. That said, I am just living my life and waiting to see who shows up. There is a "plan" for me and I have to go with the flow and let it happen. You all will be the first to know when he shows up...notice I didn't say "if" but "when" because he will.

AJM, love your attitude as well. Any lady who gets a chance with you is very lucky indeed.


Me 55
H 49
Married 21 years
No kids
bomb 5/09
filed 7/09
divorced and moving forward 5/10

Life is all about Plan B