You may not think you have bad days, but look at your posts. You freak and second guess when she's not doing what you want. That's a bad day. Do something different that will cause a shift in her thinking from the kids to you. The ideas are out there.
I should clarify. I get the feeling that she doesn't allow me to have bad days, but I'm supposed to excuse certain actions from her as a "bad day." Yet, when I have a bad day she treats it as a huge incident.
I did also read a couple books.
I should look at long term/big picture.
It would kinda be hard for me to recreate the date as she was the one who pursued me and Once, I decided she was right, it was all in for me. I didn't have to do much "courting." And I can't do the things that made her pursue me (other than be funny which I try to be)
Patience is bitter, but its fruit is sweet. --Jean Jacques Rousseau.
