who are you?

[MrBond]

No one is blaming you. What is your next plan of action?

You can either continue to stand by him and get him help "through sickness and health, etc." or you leave.

I disagree with JTB in that I believe in second chances. I've seen former abusers change remarkably as long as they are willing to get the help they need. Hitters do not have to always keep hitting. It's a choice.

But it comes down to your decision.