What exactly is your evidence? Have you verified who she is calling in an OM?
My evidence is a printout from our carrier. More than 2500 texts in about 10 weeks. Phone calls almost every day. I have the number, dates, times, duration. Just not content. In any event, certainly inappropriate (at the least).
As far as the bed thing, I'm just having some trouble. On one hand - create some distance and detach, and on the other hand - focus on the good things/times, snuggle in bed, etc. i guess in other words - I'm confused about whether to push her away or give her the opening to start back in? It's a fine line, I'm just trying to stay on it.
