Have patience. Just the fact that she said she wanted to work things out is great. You are the one who is expecting her to "get over" her feelings and be happy.
Doesn't work like that. Try look at other things other than MC. Read other books, go out and treat her like someone you are dating for the first time because, quite frankly, she is a different person. Your M is changed.
You may not think you have bad days, but look at your posts. You freak and second guess when she's not doing what you want. That's a bad day. Do something different that will cause a shift in her thinking from the kids to you. The ideas are out there.
What I did was look for different podcasts on making a strong marriage. Alot of them are out there with some great dating ideas and so forth. Try those.
M-43 W-40 2D - 9 and 5
Emotion, yet peace. Ignorance, yet knowledge. Passion, yet serenity. Chaos, yet harmony. Death, yet a new life.
