Thanks all... I appreciate the feedback. I haven't expected sex for a long time. I'm just coasting and doing the best I can. We started a new book last night. It's called "his needs, her needs". W made the comment that we will need to buy it so we can continue to read over and over. We are only 10 pages in but it's a great book.

When spooning after the reading she backed into me more then she ever has. She was also rubbing my arm while falling asleep.

I'm just trying to read her body language and respond accordingly. I think my pace is dead on.

She will be away until Monday and I have a business trip so I will not see her till Thursday.

Out of sight out of mind? No way! I plan on putting a little gift in her bag for the weekend trip and sending a pajamagram while I'm away. OM will not slip into her head!


M: 42 - W: 41 - M: 18 - T: 23 - D:16 S:14
EA - July 2010
NC w/EA - Nov 2010
Piecing - Jan 2011
I ask for div - Jan 2012
Div papers filed - Mar 2012
I move out - July 2012
Divorce final - Nov 7, 2012