Golfgirl1, I like your attitude.
I've been away for a long time while I readjust to what happened. As I get further away, what I find is that there are soooooo many good people out there. I really enjoy the time with them. Lots of very nice ladies of all ages to spend time with as well.
I've decided I'm not "looking" for that next long term relationship. Rather, I'm looking to be me and if I find somebody I'd like to spend my time with, I do. If not, I don't waste my breath. Very freeing. Very comfortable. Very nice change even though I too had a good marriage for a lot of years.
Once I came to terms with what happened vs. what I wanted to have happen, I resolved to not fool myself by what I hear or by thinking I can "save" somebody. Nope - you are what you are and your actions show that. If you and I aren't compatible, then so be it. Next? smile

Good to see the positive attitude and I really do like the idea of a business card. That's pretty cool.


"Our lives begin to end the day we become silent about things that matter" MLK
Put the glass down...
"Yesterday I was clever so I wanted to change the world
Today I am wise, so I am changing myself."