Well could use some advise. My wife called out of blue and asked if I would co-sign for a loan. She was whining that we are joined financially and this causes her issues moving forward. Creating her financial independence is hampered because she can't do the things she wanted. I was caught off guard but said no i couldn't do that she made the choice to leave and I couldn't help her. Now a week later she texts that she getting a lawyer lined up to start "unentangling us financially". I said you mean your moving toward divorce. She says no i need to be able to make financial decisions that make sense for me. I basically left it go at that. Any thoughts? I am basically detached except when its about the kids. I have a lawyer on call when I need it but until I'm served there is no need. I have protected myself about as much as I can but if we go to divorce ther may be many things changing financially.
