Big talk tonight. I am a wreck, need support.

[Sad_but_happy]

"I'm stuck. I don't know what to do. Is it hopeless? Do WAS get this close to cheating and come back?"

My W did and is still working her way back. Before I knew about the EA she asked me questions like; "how can you tell if a man really likes you? How do you know if a man just wants you for sex?"

Now at the time I thought we were just making conversation. But now I know better.

She was getting deeper into the EA and contemplating PA.

She did not have a PA luckily for "us" because I really feel it would be over.

I took the hard line. Told her to end it or we are done and I meant it. I know that approach is not for everyone.

But boundaries are a must. I truly believe that respect must be established or there is no chance at all! He may hate you at first, but he will respect you!