Hi all, Haven't posted in awhile, guess I just didn't feel the need to.
Alot has happened over the past couple of months. From H showing up drunk one night at 2 am, begging me to have sex with him; I adimantly refused which caused him to storm out... to the holidays when he suggested I take the kids to be with HIS family because he felt that I was more welcome there than him. (They're not very happy with his choices) Turned out that we went to his brothers (his mom was visiting and really wanted to see me, so I decided to go) on Christmas Eve, all 4 of us, as I told him I would go, but NOT in place of him. H pretty much sat in a corner, sulking just about the whole time. Being Mr Doom and Gloom, as usual. Then there was our son's 9th birthday party, where, more of the same, sulking, standing off by himself, not really talking to anyone... meanwhile I was fine and enjoying myself and the company of everyone there. None of it an act, all real, me being true to myself. To a few days before New Year's Eve, H got a DUI and leaving the scene of an accident charge. (He calls me at 1 am that night and tells me the whole story and that he was dropping of his "friend" Karen, (one of the numerous women he has reached out to) after they had been drinking and as he left, he said he must have backed into a car (he didn't realize it and has no damage on his vehicle) while leaving her condo complex, the police were called, found him and pulled him over and he got the DUI. He called and called and called me that night and I hung up on him after he told me where he was and who he was with and I texted him "Don't call me, call Karen"
So here we are present day...he found a condo to rent, and is moving into it on Saturday. He's moving some furniture out of our house today.
