H's MLC - finding compassion and forgiveness

[kissak]

I think you would be doing the right thing Mila...Its for you FIL, not your H. BUt I sure would make it known that the OW will not be allowed for a visit. Hopefully the inlaws would be visiting your FIL most of the time they are there and hopefully they would just be sleeping at your home for the most part.

I have thought about this myself before. MY H's mother lives out of state and I know if she wanted to visit, I would let her stay with me. H could visit her if he wanted to. BUT my H knows there will be NO OW in my house at anytime whatsoever...that is MY home!