Well, nothing wrong at all with a little Klingon (though I agree the whole point of mentioning it is to advertise one's geekiness), but I thought the angel pic was just weird. I was mainly just doing a quick look for apparently smart and active and over 40. The doc is either arrogant or funny, hard to say. I'd be most put off by his username if anything. Combine his username, his favorite sex scene, and him wanting a woman to be strong enough to email him, I start to think he's a bit too non-alpha for me, though I certainly also see that I could be misreading that.

Anyway, I totally agree with Barb -- it is too easy to write off people online because they don't square with the checklist in your head. Cast your net widely... Include the "eh, maybes." It can't hurt anything and you just might turn up someone unexpected. It certainly isn't worth being picky among people you haven't and most likely won't meet. For one thing, it takes too much energy and time. For another, it needlessly limits your possibilities.


Best,
Oldtimer