Do I let on that I know about the OM? I mean things really seem to be picking up steam for them. The calls are getting more and more frequent. Pisses me off that I pay for her cell phone (family package) and she is talking to him on it, and about things that she should probably be talking to me about.
What exactly is your evidence? Have you verified who she is calling in an OM?
If so, I would call that what it most certainly is: an inappropriate relationship for a married woman to be having. I would also tell her she needs to get her own cell phone because you are not going to continue enabling an inappropriate relationship.
That's what I would do.
If your kids are grown, what if anything do they already know? You might be suprised.
I would not move out of the marital bed, but if she is having an inappropriate relationship, I would tell her that she cannot sleep there while continuing with that relationship. Her choice, your boundary.
M-47,W-40,No kids D-filed 5/27/2010 Piecing - 10/21/2010 -=Soon to be banned=-
