I asked my wife what about if I take a job in Virginia next February.
This is where you set yourself up for disappointment.
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"Why are you asking me?" I was shocked again
Get over being shocked! She is telling you very clearly that she wants no part of your future.
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I thought the evening went well
Right here......right here is where men mess up. One tiny bit of niceness and they think it is a signal to make a move. Can't she have a nice evening with you and friends without you trying to say something regarding the R or future?
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just because you have been nice for a week doesn't mean anything has changed
True! A WAW has to see more than one week's worth of changes before she's very impressed. Most folks can change for a few days, but won't keep the changes going.
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Should I keep pressing forward with my change to myself and keep treating the family like they deserve
Well, your old way didn't work out, so what do you suggest about treating your family? What do you mean by treating them like they deserve?
It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!
