Originally Posted By: Scared2Def
Hello,


Now granted I have only been working on my changes since last monday, today is thursday so that is 9 days of nice guy in her life. I know that is not enough to sway her future.



Hi,

9 Days is nothing, it's taken 5 months for my changes to have a positive effect on my wife. I'm not even doing them for her anymore.


To her immense credit she is also making changes, it's taken me a good few months to beleive that they are not temporary. So I see it from both sides of the fence.