How do I keep myself from bringing the topic up everynight. When is too late if she is planning on leaving in June. I refuse to give up but if I stop talking about it, what is the suggested time frame before I bring it up again?


Me - 39 yrs old
Wife - 39 yrs old
Married - 18 years
Together - almost 21 year
Kids - son age 13/ daughter age 10
Bomb Dropped in May 2010
Seperating - June 2011, after school lets out