Does she truly not love me anymore? I am in such pain and I know my pain does not make up for the way she has felt and been through for so long. I am a new guy and see what I am about to lose. My children and my love of my life.

I never treated her the right way, never treated her like the wedding vows we gave each other.

I hate to ask for help but I need you guys to come out of the woodwork for me on this one. I am losing a great woman and there is no replacement.

My biggest issue is that I feel I need to talk about this every night with her and I know that is probably pushing her further away. Do you agree?

Me - 39 yrs old
Wife - 39 yrs old
Married - 18 years
Together - almost 21 year
Kids - son age 13/ daughter age 10
Bomb Dropped in May 2010
Seperating - June 2011, after school lets out