I bit the bullet and started a thread of my own for my own story. Hard to write, great therapy though.... It's in Midlife Crisis and titled "Piecing via shoots and ladders." H is in MLC OW is gone - moved! I struggle with intrusive thoughts and visions.
You make a good point about SBH letting his W work through her feelings. As hard as it is, I need to accept that my H may be doing that too......even though I DO think OW was certifiably crazy. She did a very scary thing to me. THAT'S when he woke up. Why is it the crazy ones get their attention? I think anyone wanting a married person has a screw loose somewhere..... Just MHO.
MZ
M 55 H 58 M 24 T 29 S 22,21, 19 Bomb 4/10 It (A) really isn't about you 11/2013 We all have work to do
The truth will set you free, but it will almost kill you first.
