Well last night we went out with 2 of my friends and the other woman and my wife click enough that I think that have fun together. Things were playful fun and then when we got home I asked my wife what about if I take a job in Virginia next February. And she replied, "Why are you asking me?" I was shocked again. I thought the evening went well and then she told me, just because you have been nice for a week doesnt mean anything has changed. So anyway, I again took the blow. Should I keep pressing forward with my change to myself and keep treating the family like they deserve and see what happens? She is still not planning on leaving until June when school lets out.
Me - 39 yrs old Wife - 39 yrs old Married - 18 years Together - almost 21 year Kids - son age 13/ daughter age 10 Bomb Dropped in May 2010 Seperating - June 2011, after school lets out
