Thanks Bolt. I agree with what you are saying. If I try to find a positive outcome with everything she says I am just setting myself up for failure.
Today was a pretty positive day. Wife emailed me a few times at work and called me once as well. After dinner, we sat at the table and talked about her day. Later on she stayed up to wait for me and one of our kids to come home from a school event, something which recently she would never do.
Focusing on the positive stuff will help with keeping my outlook positive which like you say, should make me more attractive to her. Part of my problem, was that I was an angry and grumpy person, so I have to make sure that I don't regress.
Another day and we are still together in some form, so that is good news as well! As always, thanks for the input.
