Hope,
That's all well and good... Continue to DB, but it is time to set boundaries!

No cooking or cleaning or laundry or sleeping in the same bed... He has no reason to change! He has it all... You need to change your behavior in order for him to change his. What you have been doing is not working...

Time to 180 his a**!!!

You will feel empowered if you set boundaries! What have you got to Lose?

M: 42 - W: 41 - M: 18 - T: 23 - D:16 S:14
EA - July 2010
NC w/EA - Nov 2010
Piecing - Jan 2011
I ask for div - Jan 2012
Div papers filed - Mar 2012
I move out - July 2012
Divorce final - Nov 7, 2012