Twink, I'm so sorry that your daughter is struggling. I know how difficult that can be.

Good for you for telling your h to deal with the accounts. It really is best for you.

T, I know that you are thinking that all is great in ow lalaland for your h. But trust me, it isnt all rainbows and butterflies.

Having said that, who cares about her? Or him right now for that matter.He is still deep in the tunnel without a freakin' clue.

Take good care of yourself. Be present in your life. Find something that fills you up, Twink. Take a dance or art class. Volunteer.

You are such a kind, compassionate lady. Let him blow in the wind.