Please know that what I'm about to say I say with respect...
I believe your W was angry with the, "you can have everything" crap because it shows you are fighting for nothing. It shows a complete lack of self-respect. Part of your life are the "things" you have accumulated. Fighting for ones rights is attractive. Rolling over and giving up everything looks weak.
Fight dude! Be fair but fight!
M: 42 - W: 41 - M: 18 - T: 23 - D:16 S:14 EA - July 2010 NC w/EA - Nov 2010 Piecing - Jan 2011 I ask for div - Jan 2012 Div papers filed - Mar 2012 I move out - July 2012 Divorce final - Nov 7, 2012