Getting the divorce wont prevent it from happening. I will prevent them from having anything to do with OM until they prove he isnt using or drinking.
I have told W that she is more than welcome to spend her visit at my home. I want her to see the kids still. She can bring food and cook it here. they can go outside do things here. She can take them anywhere OM isnt.
What the divorce will do is be the final closing of my marriage. It will be the end of this roller coaster ride. From here on out the lawyers and the judge can deal with this. i dont have to interact with her. Her mom will take care of that for me.
I can focus 100 percent on me and my kids. I dont want to admit defeat, but I just dont have the energy or motivation to deal with her anymore. I just dont want to.
