If your wife is having a MLC, I suggest that you start a thread over on that forum. I also suggest that you read the resources that would be provided to you when you start a thread in MLC.
What YOU need to understand now is that IF YOUR W is having a crisis. It is HER crisis - nothing YOU do will change it or speed it up. Some things that YOU do will make it worse.
My short and simple advice....
Live YOUR life. Stop worry about what she is thinking or doing. Act as if she is never coming back. Work on yourself.
God Bless, Eric
"The difficulties of Life are intended to make us BETTER,not bitter". "Fear is a prison, where you are the jailer. FREE YOURSELF!" "Life is usually all about how you handle Plan B." - Jack3Beans