Dude, what she is doing is what she said she was going to do AND that is trying to DIVORCE your as*.
Look maybe you think she is kidding and all of a sudden she is going to come around. Maybe she will, maybe she will not. Since this is now a legal matter you need to look at it as if it is a business transaction.
Please dude, you need to stop thinking as if the two of you are in this together. She has HER agenda and you should have YOUR.
A few weeks ago you were going to hand everything over to her. Now, you seem to be changing your mind, which personally I think is a good move.
Look man, I have been where you are at. You may just be thinking that by being nice, being "fair" that somehow she just may change HER mind when she sees how fair and nice you are being. I would not count on it. SHE IS TRYING TO DIVORCE YOU.
Having said this, if you can do this with honor, dignity and class I say go for it. Just do for YOU. Do what YOU really want to do, do not do something with some expectation that she will react favorably.Oh, and BTW, your nice gestures, your being "fair" could be perceived as manipulative to her.
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She is thinking that she can walk out without it having an affect on her and I know that wont be the case
1) stop mind reading 2) you have no f*cking idea what she may or may not being thinking 3) She just may not give two chits of how this is going to impact her.
You keep saying fair....do you think your definition of fair is the same as hers? If so, then was her definition of "till death do us part" the same as yours.
What - I want to be very clear here. I am NOT saying be an as*. I am saying to protect yourself. I am saying to LISTEN to YOUR L, who by the way is not emotionally invested in the R.
a quick question for you....
What does a man of honor and character do when faced with a difficult sitch?
I leave you with this... Guilt is a useless emotion.
Guilt make ya do things you regret later
FEAR will paralyze you from making good and healthy choices for YOU.
God Bless, Eric
"The difficulties of Life are intended to make us BETTER,not bitter". "Fear is a prison, where you are the jailer. FREE YOURSELF!" "Life is usually all about how you handle Plan B." - Jack3Beans
