Just read the email that your W sent to you. It hurt me to hear those words and it isn't even my sitch. I dread if/when I hear something similar.
I know that both Bond and I have already told you this, but do yourself a favor and get an attorney. The attorney can be a good buffer bw you and W so that you don't come across as the bad guy... or at least not as much so.
Hang in there.
M 43 X 38 T 13 W moves out of home 11/2010 Roller coaster from hell 2/2011-5/2012 I request divorce 5/2012 W moves home 6/2012 Good time 7/2012 - 1/2015 I leave 3/2016 process of divorce