Now what do you mean "generally"? Do you have a set schedule when you have them? You should start doing that to show that you're responsible. At the very least your kids deserve it.
Are you involved with their schoolwork/activities, etc.?
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Emotion, yet peace. Ignorance, yet knowledge. Passion, yet serenity. Chaos, yet harmony. Death, yet a new life.