I saw our therapist again this week. It is clear by now that WAW has some issues she is working through- midlife crisis, anger at having married young and "missing out" on being single, feeling that this isn't working for her.
Therapist said she was in deep moral conflict between her upbringing and her desires, to a crisis level. She has not asked me to leave because it was immoral in her mind.
I asked what I needed to do to help her. He said leave.
Its not what I want. The therapist has temporarily shut down her wanting to date other people, but he told me that frankly, if she wants to do that this badly she needs to learn what it is all about.
She is still witholding any real affection, even if she is treating me well otherwise. Anybody have any ideas? I don't know how I can do this and hang onto my dignity, given that I am currently financially dependent on her. (Don't worry, working o that!) MOUNTAIN LION
