It seems like you busted your divorce, but what happened after that, did you both just settle for each other?
Not being obtuse here, just wondering if you both fell back into old habits and didn't keep yourself or the other accountable.
As suffering from nice guy syndrome myself, I'd recommend finding a book called Hold Onto Your NUTS (Non-negotiable, Unalterable Terms), and its been 10 years man, brush up on Divorce Remedy its the newer version of DB.
Your not a chump, but right now all the 'nice' things your doing its building resentment...seems like for awhile now. All work no pay.
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